Kinky Dom for kinky sub - m4w - 39 - Oceanside CA
- Published date: September 3, 2026
- Modified date: June 19, 2025
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- Oceanside, California, United States
I'm a dominant with a deep appreciation for masochists who truly feel their submission. Spankings, paddlings, floggings, biting, and bruises, especially on a well-marked ass, are things I take pride in dishing out. I'm not bound by a script, every dynamic is unique.
I have a sadistic streak. I love the art of impact: floggers, paddles, whips, especially when focused on the ass. Flogging is a favorite, I don’t just swing wild. I focus, build the sensation, and work a spot until it stings. It’s not about brute force, it’s about control, intent, and making her feel it.
I enjoy objectification, humiliation, degradation, fingers in her mouth, spit on her face, a hand around her throat while I tease her relentlessly. I love pushing her limits with overstimulation, messy throat play, gagging, squirting, and seeing how far we can go.
But I’m not just the hard edge. I have a soft side. I comfort. I protect. I hold her close, whisper to her, make her feel safe and adored. Cuddles matter. That closeness matters. A submissive with a touch of “little” is welcome here.
The BDSM spectrum is vast. I’ve explored much, but not all. I’m open, curious, and honest about my limits: no interest in blood or scat. But I do enjoy anal play, plugs, beads, dildos, possibly more, depending on trust and desire. Some things are wants, not needs. Connection is always the priority.
| Age male: | 39 |
| Race male: | Caucasian (white) |
| Height male: | 6.1 (185 cm) |
| Body male: | average |
| Sexuality male: | Heterosexual |
| Drinks: | Socially |
| Smoke: | No |
| Drugs: | Never |
| Languages: | English |
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