Kinky Dom for kinky sub - m4w - 39 - Oceanside CA

  • Published date: June 19, 2025
  • Modified date: June 19, 2025
    • Oceanside, California, United States

I'm a dominant with a deep appreciation for masochists who truly feel their submission. Spankings, paddlings, floggings, biting, and bruises, especially on a well-marked ass, are things I take pride in dishing out. I'm not bound by a script, every dynamic is unique.

I have a sadistic streak. I love the art of impact: floggers, paddles, whips, especially when focused on the ass. Flogging is a favorite, I don’t just swing wild. I focus, build the sensation, and work a spot until it stings. It’s not about brute force, it’s about control, intent, and making her feel it.

I enjoy objectification, humiliation, degradation, fingers in her mouth, spit on her face, a hand around her throat while I tease her relentlessly. I love pushing her limits with overstimulation, messy throat play, gagging, squirting, and seeing how far we can go.

But I’m not just the hard edge. I have a soft side. I comfort. I protect. I hold her close, whisper to her, make her feel safe and adored. Cuddles matter. That closeness matters. A submissive with a touch of “little” is welcome here.

The BDSM spectrum is vast. I’ve explored much, but not all. I’m open, curious, and honest about my limits: no interest in blood or scat. But I do enjoy anal play, plugs, beads, dildos, possibly more, depending on trust and desire. Some things are wants, not needs. Connection is always the priority.


Phone number displayed (optional): 7603099998
Age male: 39
Race male: Caucasian (white)
Height male: 6.1 (185 cm)
Body male: average
Sexuality male: Heterosexual
Drinks: Socially
Smoke: No
Drugs: Never
Languages: English

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